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Toys & Tips To Feed A Girl's Love Of Building, Math & Science by Eden Godsoe

by Eden Godsoe, posted to Gifts

As a girl I was very into math, science and building. I played with my brother's LEGO way more than he did. I didn't really care for playing with dolls except if we were going to line them up by height or organize them in some other way. I loved puzzles and problem solving and constructing forts.... More »

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Tip: Talk Frequently with Girls about Math | Jezebel

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This is an interesting read including a study that showed parents talk with their sons more than their daughters about math-related concepts. Remember to include math (even things like "here are 5 raisins" when feeding your toddler) in your interactions with your daughters.

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Tip: Share your Interests and Strengths

If you were a girl who excelled at math or loved to build, make sure your daughter knows this and share your interests with her. If you weren't great at maths and sciences, try not to focus on what you couldn't do ("I was never a math person...") and find something you can share with her (e.g. cooking, puzzles, games) that has a math component.

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Tip: Provide Exposure to Role Models

Kim K and Lindsay Lohan are in the news all the time but are definitely not the kind of role models I want for my daughter. Instead share with her female leaders in maths and sciences. I plan to make a list of these soon but in the meantime here is a link to the "Top 10 Greatest Female Scientists."

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Tip: Count it at the Counter

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Turn everyday activities into a learning opportunity. A good math tip is to let your daughter buy something with her own money and don't let them leave the counter until they can count their change correctly.

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This special set contains 650 colorful LEGO bricks you can use to...more

No need to buy LEGO Friends, the new pink & purple & girly line designed especially for girls. Buy regular LEGO sets & get down on the floor building with your daughter.

Scarlet: Have you tried the new "Legos for Girls?

Eden Godsoe: I go back & forth on LEGO for girls. I'm thinking regular LEGO will do just fine. In fact I have a LEGO playdate with my daughter tonight - no pink & purple LEGO...just her older brother's stuff. That being said, if the LEGO Friends line gets a girl interested who otherwise wasn't, I think that is a good thing.

rkfellows: All LEGOs are wonderful, including Friends.

Becky Margetts: I don't think it's constructive to have a separate lego product for girls - surely that's conditioning them that they need a different, prettier, safer product? My father made a point of buying me boys toys, clothes, books and sweets as a child so that I didn't hold myself back or feel less able. I desperately wanted lego technic... Why has the world gone pink-crazy over the last few years anyway? I'm sure girls used to only have pink in moderation!

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Toy: Train Sets

This expansion track throws some additional curves into the train...more

We bought my son crazy amounts of Thomas the Train railway sets. He has since outgrown them but I am excited to introduce train sets to my daughter.

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Toy: Marble Run

A marble run delights young and old, an ever popular toy. Youngsters...more

We don't yet own any Marble Runs but this toy comes highly recommended from fellow moms of girls including Tracy W.

natasha: My daughter is 8 and she LOVES marble runs. We have the Quadrilla sets which I purchased from Fat Brain Toys. I love constructing runs with her. It's all physics and engineering.

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Toy: Jigsaw Puzzles

Enjoy passing the time as you piece together this 14" x 19" colorful,...more

I was surprised when my daughter wanted to help me with my jigsaw puzzles (yes...I'm a nerd.) She was really good even with my 1000+ piece puzzles so I have since bought her some 100+ piece puzzles to do on her own.

Marinka: my daughter loved puzzles!

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Toy: Citiblocs

These blocks are amazing - as a next step from little kids blocks. These have been fantastic for ages 7, 8 and even 9. They are all the same exact size and they can build the coolest stuff with them. You can build cantilevered structures, domes, etc. They never get tiring. Even I like to build with them. We started with 200 but ended up getting another set of 200 because they were so great.

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Toy: Magformers

Explore and experiment with these two geometric shapes, the square and...more

Thank you to my cousin Stacey for this suggestion. I hadn't heard of Magformers but love the idea of combining building and magnets into one learning toy for girls.

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Toy: Snap Circuits

Curious young minds can learn the basics of electronics as they build...more

This sounds amazing and came highly recommended from a mother of 3. A fun way to teach your daughter about electronics.

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Toy: The Young Scientists Club

For children between the ages of 5 and 12 to develop a love for...more

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How fun for your daughter to receive a monthly kit that focuses on different science topics such as recycling, magnets, electricity or water. Kits are less than $20 (including shipping.)

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Toy: Magna-Tiles

Magnatiles Clear 100 pieces. Free Shipping and Free Gift Wrap. Save at...more

These are a hit with boys and girls from 3 on up. They never tire of seeing what amazing new things they can can construct.

rkfellows: I LOVE these. My local Children's Museum has some and I always have to spend some time playing with them.

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Toy: Ello Building Kits

Combines craft, construction and design activities in one box,...more

Suggested by jacquiewhitt

My daughter was indifferent to the snap-together building toys that many children play with. She was drawn to the pastel blue color of the Ello pieces as well as the curves. Here is a photo of a shadow box where she used the Ello pieces to create space creatures.

Eden Godsoe: I hadn't heard of these building kits so thank you for suggesting. Good news is that I did a search on Amazon and found they sold a number of Ello kits including this one called "Ello Aquaria People Places & Things Set" for under $60 -

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Toy: Meccano

Let your imagination run wild. This set includes 260+ parts, tools and...more

Suggested by Becky Margetts

I loved my meccano set - it teaches vital engineering design concepts and basic practical skills. When I started work with an aerospace company I was amazed to see a consultant trying out designs on a 50's meccano set in his office!

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Toy: Gears! Gears! Gears!

Gear up for hours of colorful action with this 150-piece set that...more

Suggested by Michelle Hutchison

My daughter loved playing with these and they can be made is so many different combinations.

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Activity: Cooking

If cooking is something you enjoy doing, you can weave math and science into that activity. Something as simple as baking chocolate chip cookies can teach a girl about measurement, ratios, time, etc.

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Activity: Chess

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I used to play chess a lot with my dad when I was younger. I really enjoyed it! It's a great game for logical thinking, problem solving, and strategizing. Not to mention, I loved science and was good at math in school. I still enjoy both :)

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Activity: Fort Building

This is a great way to engage your children in imaginative play,...more

I consider myself a master fort builder. It is so fun getting really into building a fort with your kids and also gets them thinking about how to construct and balance things.

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Activity: Girl Scouts

Girl Scouting builds girls of courage, confidence, and character, who...more

When I was little, I was a Brownie (what we call young Girl Scouts in Canada) and loved it. Such a great way for girls to feel empowered and explore their interests including science, math and the outdoors.

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